Time flies is becoming more than an understatement,I turn 30 tomorrow and honestly it seems like my life has been moving in fast forward.I thought teachers we’re just being harsh when they said things would be very different once we left school.
Campus was a hoot though and for a while we created our own reality but that did not last forever.Graduation soon came and it was time to go deal with real life.But thirty was still far away and boy did I have plans,things I had to achieve or do by the time I turned thirty.
First on the list was getting a good job,well it has been an up and down kind of ride but I’m finally working at a job i really enjoy and it can only get better.Second on the list was finding Mr.Right,I learned the hard way you can’t plan for this one.Believe me the frogs did not disappoint but I did meet my prince charming and I couldn’t be happier.
I was going to have two kids by the time I turned 28 but as fate would have it,this wasn’t an exact science either.I am the proud mummy of a beautiful brilliant little girl and we’re working on the second born,watch this space 🙂
Looking back I don’t know what I was so afraid of about turning 30.I have grown up so much since my days of claiming I’d be 18 till i die. I now know life can’t fully be planned out and I don’t really sweat the small stuff.Instead I’m grateful for all I have,for the good and bad things that have happened to me,because they got me here.
So happy thirtieth birthday to me,can’t wait to see what the next phase of my life has to offer!
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Sometimes it feels like no matter how hard I try am falling short,whether its at being a mum,a wife,a daughter,a sister or even at work.But falling short based on whose standards,mine?And if so should I then cut myself some slack or maintain them so that I’m always working towards being a better me.
If its not by my standards then should I break my back trying to live up to other peoples expectations?When we were kids I thought my mum was super woman,now that I’m older though I realize she was doing so much and dealing with her own issues as working mother and wife.
There are these roles that are expected of both men and women either by society or just as a status quo we have come to except them.How realistic are they though?For instance,men are supposed to be the providers in their family.
In today’s world two income homes are becoming more common,how then does this affect the role of the man, if at all?I remember my dad making Sunday breakfast sometimes but that was a rare occurrence,talking from my own experience,I don’t know how I would survive if my husband didn’t help out with dinner or dishes every so often.
Does this make me any less of a wife or mother or him less of a man?I don’t think so!I love that my daughter will have numerous memories of making breakfast with her dad,doing school projects or sorting the laundry,so that mummy does not have to be up all night doing chores.
So to hell with people’s standards and expectations,I’ll go with what works for me and my family.I’ll give myself a hard time every once in a while because I’m my own worst critic but I can handle me…
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So im having a mild case of writers block , I know happens to the best of us. Its not even that i dnt have something to say, its the how to say it thats proving to be a task.
Usually reading helps with this, I just finished reading the fifty shades trilogy but all that did was leave me with steamy hot images in my mind and a warm fuzzy happy ever after feeling in my heart. (hopeless romantic – guilty as charged)
So iv heard many writers remedy the block by just getting on the computer and typing whatever comes out.. thats what im doing but on my phone…
There is also the reading other blogs trick, iv been doing some of that all morning, having a slow day at work.
So i was looking very busy staring at my screen, thanx for this @mbaudennis, @JadeM.Wong,@pianowhispers,@thatssojacob, @ssunshine14,@fairlyliterary – and for writing awesome posts!
And just like that, I have a blog post my first in almost 3 weeks… Id say thats progress!
…. My two Cents . …
I have been a way for a while and a lot has been happening. I’m back now though and I hope to pick up my blogging momentum from where I left off.
So what have I been up to?! For starters i got a permanent contract at work, yay! Been unemployed for a year was tough and I almost gave up.
We moved house, so there was a bit of adjusting to our new environment. That said we have settled in pretty well.
The biggest news is my twin relocated back home from the US. Now when you’ve been best friends with someone since you we’re born, its kinda hard to have them living half way around the world.
It feels like everything has just fallen into place, and I have to admit God’s timing is the best. Everything may not be perfect but its as close as can be.
I’d love to hear what you’ve been up to or whats your new for you so feel free to leave a comment 🙂
Forever: such a simple word but packed with so much commitment,so much promise..
There is change in every wind,
The sands of time don’t know our name,
Nothing is sure but surely as we stand,
I promise I will the stay the same,
I have never seen forever,
But I know we’ll remain.
Credit;Some of the words are borrowed from Allesia Cara’s song ‘stone” off her album know it all.
What if the trees didn’t have enough patience to wait till they’re grown? …
I’m learning everyday that good things come to those who wait.