You courted her, proposed and finally before God and man vowed to be her provider and protecter, to respect, support and love her till death do you part.
Over the years you have broken all of these vows, you have rewarded the woman who stuck by you through good and bad times with nothing but pain and heart ache.
You say you love us, that we are your blood. Do you think we fell from the sky? Have you forgotten the person who bore you three children.. There is no us without her…
Granted relationships are hard and they dnt always work. Common decency dictates tho that you respect one another, have some decorum and keep your dirty laundry to yourself.
You say she’s brainwashed us and that she wants to turn us against you. But you did that all on your own when you not only left home but also checked out of our lives. The pop in and out dsnt count, we’re not a drive through. ..
You dnt get our unconditional loyalty to her, well let me simplify it for you. You left, she stayed!She has always been there for us, even when we dnt have anything to eat or money for bills. Never did she say one bad thing about you.
Then you want to act some type of way because we know the struggles she’s had to go through to raise us and wunt let you continue to disrespect and hurt her. ..
Why do you hate the woman who has kept your home since you walked out 20 years ago. ..
Why do you hate the woman who carried your three beautiful children..
Why do you hate the woman who insisted we have to respect you because no matter what you are our father….
The year is 2016, we live a global village, information is at our fingers tips, people have been to the moon and back, technology is the norm to an extent where the possibilities of innovation are end less.. . Yet my being an intelligent, confident, self aware, assertive beautiful woman is for some people still unfathomable.
How the same girl grows into a smart woman who excells at work relying only on her brains and not her long legs or pretty face.
Im still shocked that half of America, would rather vote in a candidate who unapologetically showed his ugly true colours over a capable woman. Granted she had made some mistakes in the past, but dnt we all? !
My daughter excells at everything she does, like so many little girls her age. Girls are taking centre stage both in academics and extra curriculum activities… And i intend to continue encouraging and supporting her to do even better.
I refuse to dumb myself down to stroke anyones ego. I refuse to tell my little girl she cnt do something she’s interested in because its supposed to be a preserve for boys..
Don’t get me wrong, was i raising a boy, I would teach him the same values and expose him to the same opportunities. Most of all teach him to respect others abilities and not to judge them based on their gender , race, religion,political affiliation or other demographic features.
I am capable of too much to just sit and look pretty!Our daughters’, our sisters, our mothers are capable of too much to just sit and look pretty.
……….. ….. my two cents. .. … …
It sounds simple enough in theory but practically its much more of a task. We all have a rough idea of how we would act in a certain situation, then when it actualy happens we behave in the exact opposite way.
Granted we’re human and sometimes emotions run high and things happen way faster than logic can handle.
I dnt know about you but Im my own worst critic and i usually perfom a post analysis when i lose my cool just to try and see how i could have acted different.
I wunt lie, some people make it difficult to even remember the high road exists. Iv been having too many of these moments lately especially at work and iv just decided enough is enough.
I wunt be that person who takes the bait and in the end looks like the bad guy. Some people dnt deserve you using so much energy just to prove your right. Thats what karma is for!
Sooner or later they will get what’s coming to them and you wont even have to lift a finger!